embracing my inner slut

Slut (n.) s a term applied to an individual who is considered to have loose sexual morals or who is sexually promiscuous.

My morality when it comes to sex has always, as Samantha would say in Sex & the City, "Trysexual, I'll try anything once." Though I haven't really done a lot yet aside from voyeurism, playing with toys, a failed attempt at water-sports, flip-flop sex, creampies (with my exes), balls-worshipping (?), rimming, jockstraps, massage, exhibitionism and threesomes. In retrospect, as much as I'd like to think that I've done a lot of things, I haven't. I'm like an amateur. A cocoon in a world filled with butterflies.

(How gay was that last statement? AMIRIGHT?)

Having been in an almost two-year relationship made me realise a lot of things when it came to my sexuality. There can only be so much that I could try and experiment with with some people, and some of them may not be as open to trying things out as I would. Like I said before, I wouldn't mind giving a threesome with another guy and a girl a go. I'd like to give S&M, like, legit S&M a go too, bondage, leather, felching, role playing, glory holes, among other things. 

I'm not exactly too sure what else is out there but I'm sure there are. 

Bruce Nauman, 'Punch and Judy II Birth & Life & Sex & Death, 1985.

Before all this, a part of me felt really bad about the idea of sleeping around. Aside from the stigma connected to it, there's also the idea of a closeted society to mask its urges and fantasies. I don't want to be a part of that, I want to be somebody whose proud and is able to explore the rather intimidating, sometimes frustrating, but altogether fun world of sex. See, this is why books like 'Fifty Shades of Grey' was such a big boom! There's a lot of 'sick' people out there, and it only affirms the reality of it all. 

So if you think you're at the same page as me, listen to yourself, listen to your dharma and don't let society dictate how you should be and what you should be in life. Make your own map, draw your own kamasutra. Our ignorance only build walls to acceptance and understanding.

I guess this is what life is all about. To give everything that you fancy, a go. Unless it's crystal meth, 'cause that shit fucks you up. 

p.s. OH! and safe sex people, use your goddamn condoms for christ's sake. 'cause nobody likes sleeping with somebody with herpes.